7/28/2009

What cause people hard to talk to each other

Sometimes, silence is the best communication between people, without talking anything, you know what I am thinking about and I know yours. However, most people keep silent because of it is hard to talk to each other, it is hard to open our heart, express our emotion in front of people.

Most people agreed that language barrier cause people hard to talk to each other. For example, how can an Indian who only knew Tamil communicate with a Britain who spoke in English? It is really difficult for them to know each other well and talk to each other. Besides, what made people hard to talk to each other is their different mindset, perception and views. Every people have their different views of life and it is hard to find a person who shared the same thing with you.

With references to movie entitled “Thousand Years of Good Prayers”, it clearly showed some reasons that cause people hard to talk to each other. For example, Mr. Shi’s daughter found it hard to communicate with her father and express herself in front of him because of the generation gap and clashes of opinion. In addition, Mr. Shi likes to talk with Madam who is an Iranian because they are same generation and same aged group. Besides, they share their same feeling that is they want their children who live in America to de happy.

One of the examples from the movie is one party refuses to talk cause it hard to communicate each other. Mr. Shi try to persuade his daughter to talk but his daughter refuse to talk, she tries to create barrier of silence between them. For me, it is not hard to talk with my family and my friends. However, it is hard for me to express my emotion in front of them. I think this because of the upbringing. My family members don’t know how to express themselves well, me too. For instance, although my parent never said that they love me, but I know they care about me very much.

People nowadays become more “closed”, they try their best to keep their secret in their heart instead of let others know. We should try to open our “mouth” and our “heart”. We should try to express more emotion and tell people what is in our mind .

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