7/28/2009

What cause people hard to talk to each other

Sometimes, silence is the best communication between people, without talking anything, you know what I am thinking about and I know yours. However, most people keep silent because of it is hard to talk to each other, it is hard to open our heart, express our emotion in front of people.

Most people agreed that language barrier cause people hard to talk to each other. For example, how can an Indian who only knew Tamil communicate with a Britain who spoke in English? It is really difficult for them to know each other well and talk to each other. Besides, what made people hard to talk to each other is their different mindset, perception and views. Every people have their different views of life and it is hard to find a person who shared the same thing with you.

With references to movie entitled “Thousand Years of Good Prayers”, it clearly showed some reasons that cause people hard to talk to each other. For example, Mr. Shi’s daughter found it hard to communicate with her father and express herself in front of him because of the generation gap and clashes of opinion. In addition, Mr. Shi likes to talk with Madam who is an Iranian because they are same generation and same aged group. Besides, they share their same feeling that is they want their children who live in America to de happy.

One of the examples from the movie is one party refuses to talk cause it hard to communicate each other. Mr. Shi try to persuade his daughter to talk but his daughter refuse to talk, she tries to create barrier of silence between them. For me, it is not hard to talk with my family and my friends. However, it is hard for me to express my emotion in front of them. I think this because of the upbringing. My family members don’t know how to express themselves well, me too. For instance, although my parent never said that they love me, but I know they care about me very much.

People nowadays become more “closed”, they try their best to keep their secret in their heart instead of let others know. We should try to open our “mouth” and our “heart”. We should try to express more emotion and tell people what is in our mind .

7/12/2009

My dream~~~

Everybody has a dream, so do I, but not everybody is able to achieve what they wanted to be.

From childhood, I am full with ambitious to walk my own way, to make my dreams come true and to make my imagination to become reality. I will try and do every best in making my dream come true. Being an architect is one of my “great dream”, every time when I come across the building which is unique and elegance in its design, I will have an eager to built one for my own.

For me, being able to design a dream home for my family and make the place “sweet home” for family members is definitely bring a lot of satisfaction to me. Undeniable, this is also one of the main objective and target to be achieved by all building architect.

In order to make my dreams come true, I grasp all opportunity in enhancing my drawing skills from early age in primary school, I participated in activities related to the design and creativity. I learned a lot of designing information from the magazine, enhancing my knowledge through observing different characteristics of building design by different masters. While observing and appreciating the excellent design, I am always imagine that sooner in future, I will be able to design with my own creativity, making people’s dream to have a nice home come true, as well as my dream realization.

I wish to deliver the style and uniqueness of culture for various countries through building architecture. Architecture, is a non-verbal communication. Through building architecture, people are able to understand the culture and life style of that particular place. Uniqueness in building architecture will represent the cultural and historical background of the country. Following the ramp up in tourism industry, indirectly bring up the economic for the country as well as the contribute to the elevate the pride for the nation.